Sunday, January 20, 2008

reflections

 failures in life are people who don’t try
 Success is how well we do compared to what we are capable of.
 Positive thinking with" effort” increases the probability of success.
 Negative thinking with “effort” decreases the probability of success
 Positive thinking backed with positive actions comes with positive believing.
 Good leaders look to create more good leaders unlike leaders with inferiority Complexes who are afraid that they may loose the chair&position
. People with high self esteem & self confidence create more leaders.
 Synergy is greater than energy.
 Can v motivate people ? No. bcos it is an action
 Why do people get demotivated?
 Who motivates the motivator?
 The greatest motivator is “ belief”
 If u believe u cannot do it then you do justify that you can’t do it & vice versa.
 Losers don’t like to do things, winners too don’t like to do things but do it.
 Winners always put in the extra effort even when it hurts
 Winners always put in 200%.
 Winners always compete against themselves.
 Values are taught in the formative years.
 Culture in an organization goes –TOP DOWN.
 We need to turn our weakness into our strengths.
 Losers always rationalize.
 Bigger the problem bigger the opportunity.
 Ability without dependability is a liability.
 Only crackpots watch out for Jackpots.
 Parenting & Leadership are not popularity contest.
 People who never learn to obey can never learn to command.
 Empathy is –I feel what u feel, sympathy is-I understand what u feel.

ps of power
 Position power
 Personality power
 Power that comes based on principles & character.

Leader has to make Decisions.
3CS OF Decision
 Decision of command
 Decision of consultation
 Decision of consensus
Communication -3levels of communication.
 Physical-appearance
 Intellectual
 Emotional-unsaid.
Never laugh at anyone’s dreams; people who don’t have dreams don’t have much
Talk slow but think quickly
When u lose don’t lose the lesson
Remember the 3RS:
RESPECT FOR SELF
RESPECT FOR OTHERS
RESPONSIBILITY FOR YOUR ACTIONS.

THE KEY TO EVERTYTHING IS PATIENCE: U GET THE CHICKEN BY HATCHING
NOT SMASHING IT
LIFE IS A JOURNEY NOT A GUIDED TOUR.
NEVER LET FEAR OF STRIKING OUT GET IN UR WAY.
TO HANDLE UR SELF USE UR HEAD TO HANDLE OTHERS USE UR HEART.